Foolin ur parents???

Day ,from when i posted my last blog ... was thinking on which topic should i write..

Then Suddenly one day .

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My friend had asked me this question.

dedicated to my friend........

whether fallin in love is foolin ur parents??

This dilemma is typical of Indian boys and girls who respect conservatism and find it hard to bridge tradition and modernity. Perhaps, the love quotient in his life had grown potent!

I wrote:

If you are able to justify both your ‘loves’ then you are not fooling either of them. Just as loving your mother is not fooling your father, similar is the case with loving a girl. 'Love rebounds as love. Love is the most natural reaction to love.' One love is not antagonistic to the other. Love perpetuates love.

We do not know how to receive this gift. Anything that touches us takes a tinge of our imperfection and the greatest imperfection is that we are split. There are various personalities with different ideologies existing simultaneously within. Each is potent at some level or other. At the intellectual level we are a kind who is quite different from the one at the mental level. The mental person is different from the physically instinctive. The intellectual person is an idealist. The mental man is wishful and the physical man impulsive. A perceiver, a feeler and a thinker share our quarters. When these three entities are at an agreement we do justice to things. And, if even at one level there is a discord, then we fool ourselves first and anybody else next.

There is a certain aspect of us, which only the various shades of love can unfold. A girl in a boy's life or a boy in a girl's life is the first instance when they give out their love. Receiving love was more vital before. It is their first lesson in acceptance. This capacity to give is very comforting and self-assuring. "To be loved is the greatest consolation and to love is a blessing".

i just have to add one of my favourite lines...

I hold it true, whate'er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
'its better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.