Happiness

Happiness is an interesting concept.Happiness comes when your work and words are of benefit to yourself and others.

What makes somebody happy? What can you do to be happy?
Happiness isn't just an in-the-moment thing; it is your state of being, at least, for a moderate while.
People can become depressed, unmotivated, disheartened, and discouraged for many reasons, and depending
on the magnitude, the sadness can replace the happiness as a state of being. However, if one is normally happy and
then becomes sad because of, say, a funeral, that does not mean they have lost their happiness, it is just temporarily gone,
in alternative to actually being displaced.even my rejection in patni makes me happy........n hatts off to my friends.... who r really affable......

On to one of the original questions, "What makes somebody happy?" The answer one might think of would be love...
money, power… something along those lines. That's not true. The answer is conflict. Of course, it has to be a balanced
amount of conflict, as too much will push the boundaries and turn a human otherwise (other than happy).
Still, conflict, that's an interesting answer. Don't people usually try to avoid conflict? The thing about conflict leading
to happiness is it can't be instigated conflict, it must be natural, something unforeseen, and of a relatively low magnitude.
For example, a business problem, or getting sued. A lot of this still doesn't make sense, does it? Well let's go back to state
of being versus in-the-moment. Of course, in-the-moment, you are going to be upset, but once the conflict is over, you will
come out feeling stronger (whether it goes your way or not), which will fortify your happiness. Whenever you get through a hard
time, once it's done, don't you feel better? You might remember yourself as still feeling down when its over, but the only time it is
truly over is when you almost forget about it, and that's when subconsciously your happiness has been strengthened. However, if there
is conflict after conflict, ranging from low to medium magnitude with little interval in between, it is possible for the happiness to disintegrate.
This happens because you do not have time to naturally forget; another conflict forces the last out of your mind, and you don't have time for
your happiness to grow.

"What can you do to be happy?" is a more interesting question than the first. You could do anything, technically. Killing and violence
makes people happy. People should be able to do anything that makes them happy. That's an alarming comment, but of course there
are stipulations. Let's finish the statement. People should be able to do anything that makes them happy… as long as it does not hurt
or inconvenience anyone else. Let's say you're driving, and it makes you happy to drive at 10 kmph on a 40kmph street (although it is more realistic
to say going faster would make you happy). You shouldn't do that, because it inconveniences others. Likewise, you shouldn't kill somebody
because that hurts him or her, as well as hurts many others psychologically. As long as you do things that make you happy that don't hurt other
people, just do them. This base rule can branch out in very intricate ways. An example that takes the base one step further is why you should
get a job, and not live on the street. If you don't have a job, you need welfare, and that's taking tax money that could be used otherwise, and it
hurts the State. Now, there are many things you do that, when branched out, hurt or inconvenience someone, but because the branches extend
so far, it is just impractical to not do the activity, because the negative result is so small and insignificant. Live by this rule and you will be a
productive, happy member of society.

all in all i would comment that .....
Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.